Photo by Nick Webb via Flickr. I met one of Singapore's female orgasm experts by chance. OK, so it wasn't totally by chance. I have been involved in the Orgasmic Meditation community in the United States for a few years already, but I wasn't in Singapore on some kind of sexual experiment trip I promise.
But then, I saw that a guy named "Mike" with a bio that said he was "the founder of sensualmassageart. I was understandably intrigued. So I swiped right and we hit it off immediately. So, first things first—that website. Sensual Massage Art is an "advocacy site" that posts a lot about sensual massages and female orgasms. It's also into writing about cross-gender erogenous spots and sexual exploration. The site also offers workshops for both men and women that are held once or twice a month in Singapore.
I decided to meet Mike for lunch. He brought along his business partner "Pothos" and the two men went to great lengths to tell me that this was all percent legal. Also, before you ask, Mike and Pothos are both pseudonyms they use on the website. So all of this is legal, which is unusual in normally straight-laced Singapore, but also not all that surprising when you remember what happens in some of the city-state's seedier corners. If it's legal, is it also profitable, I asked.
Not yet, they said. So, here I was sitting across from two guys who claim they want nothing more than to help women have powerful, and memorably orgasms. It honestly seemed too good to be true. Is it? But the reality could not be further from that.
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