Basically I want to get to the next level in my career where I can work for myself for the rest of my life. Avoid at all costs. I think for guys physical attraction in a hook-up is The Most Important Thing.
My standards here are kind of whatever. What I look for is someone who seems relaxing and fun to be around. Talk to women on dating sites like you are talking to a girl who is already your friend.
Ask about common interests. If a girl wants sex she will ask you to hang out at your home or hers vs. The whole thing can take less than 5 minutes.
Do whatever you need to do to seem like a person YOU would want to drink a glass of wine with and fool around for a few hours.
Remember that for women this means being personable, not bragging about your dick size or sex skills. The best thing a guy can do is just level with me and email me from his real email. Be the normal, fun guy you are with your friends. Talk to me like you would talk to a girl in your friend group. Try to have a fun conversation and then bring up sex or better yet, let me bring it up. Sign up for the Thought Catalog Weekly and get the best stories from the week to your inbox every Friday.
